A cult is nothing more then some one trying to find people that are compatible with them that does not always make it bad, it all comes down to the key word compatibility the same exact thing applies to anyone attempting to start some any of community, rather that be a city, state or country or a relationship.
The two biggest mistakes that people make when trying to do this is
- Know thy self for you must know your self in both in what it is that you want and do not want
2 The courage to ask the questions that need to be asked
and it is the lack of those two things above all else what why a community or a relationship fail.